The First of Her Kind
In my family, I am kind of the first of my kind. I was adopted. I am not going to deny the effect being adopted has had on my life because believe it or not, it has, hugely and greatly, though you will never comprehend that unless you are also adopted. It is life-changing, truly. So, we start there. In my family, immediate and extended I was and still am, the only one adopted. My family is really sweet, all of them. They're all really nice and have a softer side to them, and are just so dang thoughtful! Guess who is the odd one out there? Not saying that I am not loving, I am and I really care deeply about people, but I'll be extremely, ridiculously, real with you. Painfully so. I will tell you exactly what you don't want to hear. I will be hard on you, sometimes unnecessarily so. I will hold you to a higher standard than probably anyone else because I am a human too. I will not make things easy for you (given, that's not on purpose). I am sharp, not soft. I am inte...